Light his Fire

Men need to know they are loved and they enjoy being pampered too. Ask your man what he would like. Men may like you to;

*Notice Him
*Notice his taking care of things...any things...you get what you notice.
*Notice his shoulders, arms, eyes, cute butt....hwatever you think is "fine."
*See the "light her fire" list for ideas for him also.
*Dress sexy (the way he thinks is sexy) for him.
*Buy a large feather and use your imagination. Perhaps "tie" him up with a scarf and use the feather allllll over him.
*Smell good.
*Snuggling with him in the middle of the night can be romantic, whether it leads to sex or not.
*Meet him at the car, if your are home first, with a glass of something nice to drink and a "Hello" kiss. Just because!!

Use your great imagination. Have fun with this. Be ready for the love you get back.

Light her Fire

Try these ideas to light her fire. If you want to know what your woman wants ask her.

*Kissing
*Touching
*Candlelight
*Soft Music
*Good smells
*Some effort to create a romantic atmosphere
*Non-Sexual touching; hugging, massage, caresses
*Tell her she is sexy
*Tell her she is loved...outloud with words
*Turn off the TV and turn onto her
*Talk to her about-everything/anything
*Plan a picnic - alone with her (even if it is on the living room floor)
*Gentle kisses and almost sexual touching until she begs for more
*Undress her-not inthe bedroom- and very very slowly, paying attention to each layer
*See "Light his fire" for more ideas.

Take your time with all of this and any other ideas you have. Make pleasure the goal. Have fun and Enjoy.

Always Feeling Loved

I need constant attention. Not high "maintenance" attention. Not obsessive pampering. Just little bits of attention. These little acts, words, and touches keep me filled and ready for love or love-making all the time. My mate does this for me. He gets the "ready" hot woman he wants without huge effort. Here is the list of things he does to keep me feeling Loved; just a passing caress-light touch on my hair or shoulder or behind, snuggling up behind me with a gentle hug and an ear nibble, saying "Hi Beautiful", love "sticky" note on my car window, a flower (dandelion will do) on my pillow when I turn back the covers to go to bed, folding the clothes out of the dryer, shoulder rub after I have been on the computer too long, standing with my towel when I get out of the shower and then drying me off gently and slowly, bringing me coffee in bed....I could go on and on. Life is great with him. I am here to stay. Ann

Ideas for Romance;

**You are driving. Pull over in a safe area. Unbuckle your seat belt. Lean over and gently take your love into your arms and plant a juicy deep gentle Looooonnnnggg kiss on her lips. Take your time taking their breath away. Buckle up and with a smug look on your face-drive on.

**Leave a message on their cell phone. Call when you know they will not answer. Tell them you love them. Tell them they are beautiful. Tell them they are sexy and you want them. Tell them something wonderful you know they want to hear. Be truthful, be creative, don't hold back.

**If you live in an area this is possible try it out. Kids in bed/no kids. Night has settled in. Get together a blanket, glasses, wine or something nice to drink, tissues or other needed "play" things. Take them outside under the stars and make a "nest". Come back into the house and blindfold your love....lead her out into the nest and let whatever comes naturally happen. Take your time. Enjoy the atmosphere. Enjoy each other.

**Come home with flowers, dessert, dinner, bubble bath, or something you know will please your love.

**Give your love a certificate for a massage-You are the massage therapist. Include a candle and "flavored" massage oil.

**Give a gift certificate for 1/2 hour of"anything goes".

**Partner has a job around the house they Hate and keep putting off. Find a way to do it or have it done for them.

Ideas for Guys to use

**You are driving....pull over in a safe area. Unbuckle your seat belt. Take her into your arms and gently and firmly kiss her on the lips. Take your time and let her breath be taken away. Buckle up and with a smug look drive on.